Farmer Jack
Stuart Pearce
...Hi...
I've been reading several threads on the death of Nigel Doughty over a few forums, and there seems to be a lot of bitchiness about "people changing their tune" "trying to out grieve each other" and that "his (Doughty's) detractors should just butt out".
First of all let me make clear what I think about Doughty's tenure at the club (despite his untimely passing), I still think it wasn't a success, both on the pitch and in financial terms (going to get flamed about that last point (again)). What I said in the 'RIP' thread was that I didn't want to come across as a complete ingrate for certain things which included, Mr. Doughty initially investing when seemingly no one else would, the fact that we didn't have a foreign owner who knew nothing/didn't care about football (things could have been worst with that type of 'owner' IMO), and the fact that he offered to continue paying the players wages (lets face it we'd be even more f**ked if he hadn't offered to do so). I also said he seemed like a good man (because of his generosity to charity among other things, so a fair point). To add to this I've only seen one or two people you could accuse of "changing their tune", most people still haven't changed their stance one iota.
I don't know if these people are missing the point, or are just trolling, but all I can see is people offering condolences for a man who died an untimely death, and to his family who've been left behind; I really don't see what the problem is with being sad about a man dying, and for people wanting to pay their respects.
But you know something else about my opinions (and everyone elses, positive or negative) on Nigel Doughty's time at the club (not on the man himself)? It simply doesn't matter. Nigel is gone now, no more involvement in the running of the club, period. It is up to others now to fund the running of the club, and to ensure we're secure financially; it's the beginning of a new era, we have to move on because there's nothing that's going to change what's gone on before.
I'm sorry if this is one of those "too soon" posts, but I feel there's been a lot of spiteful, indignified comments made, and that certain people need to gain some perspective on the whole thing.
I've been reading several threads on the death of Nigel Doughty over a few forums, and there seems to be a lot of bitchiness about "people changing their tune" "trying to out grieve each other" and that "his (Doughty's) detractors should just butt out".
First of all let me make clear what I think about Doughty's tenure at the club (despite his untimely passing), I still think it wasn't a success, both on the pitch and in financial terms (going to get flamed about that last point (again)). What I said in the 'RIP' thread was that I didn't want to come across as a complete ingrate for certain things which included, Mr. Doughty initially investing when seemingly no one else would, the fact that we didn't have a foreign owner who knew nothing/didn't care about football (things could have been worst with that type of 'owner' IMO), and the fact that he offered to continue paying the players wages (lets face it we'd be even more f**ked if he hadn't offered to do so). I also said he seemed like a good man (because of his generosity to charity among other things, so a fair point). To add to this I've only seen one or two people you could accuse of "changing their tune", most people still haven't changed their stance one iota.
I don't know if these people are missing the point, or are just trolling, but all I can see is people offering condolences for a man who died an untimely death, and to his family who've been left behind; I really don't see what the problem is with being sad about a man dying, and for people wanting to pay their respects.
But you know something else about my opinions (and everyone elses, positive or negative) on Nigel Doughty's time at the club (not on the man himself)? It simply doesn't matter. Nigel is gone now, no more involvement in the running of the club, period. It is up to others now to fund the running of the club, and to ensure we're secure financially; it's the beginning of a new era, we have to move on because there's nothing that's going to change what's gone on before.
I'm sorry if this is one of those "too soon" posts, but I feel there's been a lot of spiteful, indignified comments made, and that certain people need to gain some perspective on the whole thing.